What is the context?
After describing his service through hardship, Paul appeals directly to the Corinthians. He has spoken freely, and his heart is open wide toward them. The distance between them is not a withdrawal of his affection.
He asks for an answering openness from them. Speaking as to his children expresses the care of their relationship; compare his explanation of fatherly care in 1 Corinthians 4:14–15. It is not necessary to read the phrase as an insult to their intelligence.
The appeal concerns their relationship with Paul and the love he wants them to return. It should not become a general claim that every painful feeling is wrong or that a leader’s demand for acceptance can never be questioned.
How is this passage commonly understood?
Christians commonly read these verses as an affectionate appeal for a renewed relationship. Wesley’s notes on verses 11–13 and the USCCB note on verses 11–13 both emphasize openness and mutual affection. Paul’s account of his ministry leads into a personal invitation rather than simply another claim of status.
What is our position?
We don't have a position on this passage yet. When our study reaches a conclusion the text supports, it will appear here.